John EarnshawWM wrote: ...
Yer never Know Tom ---Owd Lanky saying IF THA DUNT ASK THA DUNT GET
My Aunty used to say "them as asks don't get"
a cousin would reply "but I didn't ask and you didn't give me any trifle"
Aunty would reply "them as don't ask don't want".
Another of her favourite sayings was "would you like it now or will you wait till you get it", she could handle any response to that one as well.